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Welcome to a world where time is irrelevant and all familiarity ceases to exist.  

 

Where we are invited to abandon our dreams, surrender to our sorrow, and rest in a profound simplicity of being. 

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FROM DARKNESS TO LIGHT

From the depths of darkness - within our purpose-built, completely blacked-out, soundproof “caves” - people emerge with a direct knowing of a deeper truth within.

The eye masks are only used when we transition people from inside in the darkness to outside in the light.

Darkness retreat strips us of everything we’ve used in the world to build an image - to gain self-worth - to feel powerful and important - and to have a sense of meaning and purpose.

 

We’re left with our interior - with our coping mechanisms, insulative patterns, dissociative habits -- along with our tender hearts and the depth and simplicity of our presence.

 

We’re met with a very clear choice — continue chasing the dream of self-importance, of peak experiences, of avoiding our lack and neurosis — or simply soften, let go off control, receive ourselves as we are and gently open.

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COMPLETELY

THE SOUL DOES NOT GROW BY

addition

BUT BY

subtraction

- Meister Eckhart

What matters most?

What lies beyond our striving - our achieving - our healing - our awakening?

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When we turn towards the simplicity in our hearts - we enter into a tender stillness that completely fills us.

Beyond who we thought we were -

Returned to what we are -

Rested in knowing.

In the darkness - with nothing to hide behind - we are fully exposed.

 

We clearly see what is right underneath our persona.

We feel the desperation to seek experiences that will validate our worth. prop up our sense of self, and distract us from our sorrow.

 

And yet nothing lasts long enough in the dark except darkness itself.


We begin to discover that it doesn’t really matter what we’re experiencing - it just matters how deeply given we are to what we’re experiencing.

We soften.  We surrender.  We open.  And our relationship to "what is" becomes paramount. 

DEEP INTO      THE HEART OF

the unknown

THERE ARE

no practices

necessary

FOR THIS QUEST

- Ramana Maharashi

In this place of darkness - In this space of silence - What remains?

What is underneath our posturing, our personality, our attempts to be seen and validated?

As we step into this Great Mystery - leaving behind all sense of accomplishment - tenderly exposed in our lack and faults - we delicately descend into a profound simplicity.

Darkness retreat invites us into the Beyond.

 

When we stop chasing meaning - both in the things of the world and also in our experience - we begin to touch what lies underneath our seeking.

 

There’s a profound softness that beckons us from the Beyond - a faint whisper - the tiniest little bit.

 

When we feel safe enough to truly lean into the Unknown - when we trust our body enough to give it to the Unseen — we soften and open to a vast mystery within.

 

With no hope of gain and no fear of loss — we descend into the heart of hearts and rest as a speck of dust - with no voice - floating through the universe — while the waves of our life continue to move through us.

INTO THE

Beyond

STRICTLY SPEAKING,

THERE ARE NO

ENLIGHTENED PEOPLE,

ONLY

enlightened

activity

- Suzuki Roshi

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What happens when I don’t use culture to gauge my worth?

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Stripped of all distractions and all things that we look to for defining our image and self-importance - darkness retreat takes us beyond gauging our worth based on arbitrary cultural and spiritual norms and standards.

 

We are suspended in a timeless reality - we begin to move within - we slowly soften and open into our original essence.

 

Like a baby - tenderly held in the womb of darkness - safe and protected - taken by the wondrous mystery - we rest in the depths of meaning.

Who am I when no one is watching?

Unadorned - simply rested as we are - quieted and open within - deeply belonging to this vast darkness.

Keahi, the 13-year old in this video, was visiting the land with his family and got the chance to chat with a few dark retreatants after they emerged from their time in the dark. He was touched by the impactful stories that they shared and he wanted to experience it for himself.

Rites of passage are woven throughout all living cultures. They mark a significant transition and function as an essential movement and initiation into the next phase of life.

Darkness retreat brings us beyond our culturally-conditioned desires and our need to belong to these arbitrary norms and standards.  This allows us to clearly see what's essential for moving into our deepest heart.

As we soften into the darkness - we begin feel a deep sense of belonging - we begin to realize a new way of being.

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What are you unwilling to feel?

What directly connects you to what matters most?

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"Surrendering to your sorrow has the power to heal the deepest of wounds."

-  Sobonfu Some

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